Life Happens

How close can one get to a person? ..Times when her silence screams in your ears . When every breath of hers conveys a message . Fears translated into just a blink , a blank gaze . Its hard when someone becomes an crucial cog in your life. But what if she becomes your life ? What then ? The moment you realize it, you feel closer to heaven .She sets on fire emotions you thought you never had.Caresses the spirit inside you . Teaches you things you never knew about yourself .She gives you hope . Something to believe in . Life becomes a Dodge Charger in full throttle . This is heaven . Frost was right after all . Life is never an easy ride they say. You win some , you lose some . After every rise there is a fall . All these lines, proverbial . Cracks you on the inside, fear seeping through . You know what is coming, but just don't know how . You think there is nothing you cant deal with as long as you have her by your side. But then , your worst fear manifests in different ways .You try to prepare for whats to come . Reinforce whatever courage you can muster .You have no intention to give up . The world is fine as long as she is by your side . What ., what the fuck are you going to do , when you find out that its her that you are going to lose . ? Game Over .



Its over Superman.! She was your Kryptonite .

Chains of Love ..

Have you felt that you are better than the youngsters around you ? Have you laughed at their antics that they perceive is rational ? Have you felt that you are wiser than them and that the younger generation is as brainy as donkeys? Have you felt that the younger generation have no element of rationality in them ? If you are nodding to these words of mine , you better not be whining about how your elders treated you . Slowly but surely I'm realizing why my parents thought i was a retard when in my head i was Einstein . Achievements of mine were branded as immature and unreal . Future plans of mine were trashed , tagged shallow and that it lacked prospect . They knew what was best for me . The trusted themselves in that . I was only a puppet or rather a slave , they would decide for me . Every time i raised my voice , my liberation seeking soul was put down . My age was laughed at . My generation scorned at . For them , i was just like a puppy on a leash . who doesn't know better . Didnt know shit from fragrance . As i defied their chains of love and care . I made mistakes . I learnt from them . Mistake I wouldn't have made if i had followed their code . Now where am I ? I don't really know. But the knowledge that i gained from my mistakes is far more valuable to me now . Its not second hand knowledge . It fuels the heart . It gives you the strength to stand up every time you fall . Something your training wheels cant teach you ..

Gotta love shoppin for girls..!! :D

Real Estate...Automobiles..Vacancies...Sales..Rentals...Matrimonial...Not to worry,that was me going through the newspaper. The perv inside me sniggers at the irony of finding Matrimonial right next to Sales and Rentals. Lately Ive been doing some intense thinking.Very intense.I ve always had this frame of mind which detested 'arranged marriages',but right now i stand corrected.I'm wiser now. Think i would love the idea. Just imagine. Shopping for Girls..!!! Its every guys dream. Hey! don't get me wrong, isn't that what it actually is ? You go to her place. Scan her from head to toe. Like I'm buying a slave or cattle or something and when I'm satisfied by her 'physical attributes' and the gold her father is willing to lavishly cover her with. Its Match On !! The way i see it ; its a win-win situation , as the groom , i get the party money, a new car and a 'woman' ,Oh wait and a free meal.!! . How can i not agree to such an arrangement ? Who actually cares if i love her or not ? Will I ever ..

Love is a SIN ?? o_O

"How could you do this to us ? ..we have given you life, cared for you for all these years,catered to your every whim and fancy..how could you !! "- Cliche' dialog ; Every Malayalam movie. This is the dialog dramatically uttered by the parent in a so called 'love story'. Growing up watching these movies which contained these kinda scenarios, i went 'he he' . As i got older i realized that these were not just movie dialogs. These were real life situations. These dramatic utterances were soaked in despair , anguish and disappointment. The turbulence of emotions that the parent goes through wen they find that their son/daughter is in love . Is being in love a sin ? I understand that they are wiser than us, they have decades of life experience to back it up . What do we have ? This heaven of a feeling that makes us believe that we are closer to god . But then don't we have the right to be heard ? I'm pretty sure that most of us have had to go through ' sit- down - get- yelled -at ' event when that happens. To us they might be over reacting . But then again , what would i know about parenting ? But i can definitely lent my voice to the other side . I think the new generation is smarter . They seem to be much more mature in the pursuit of their mate. They take a calculated decision . The Personality matters a lot .Its the most important one . They make sure that they don't end up in a loveless marriage . The make sure that they don't end up with a psycho bitch or a douchebag . The parents might have taken care of their kids for about 1/4 of their life. But they have 3/4 of the life reaming .They have the major events of their lives left. Don't they have the right to decide who they spend their life with ? Parents seek an attractive , employed groom who's financially secure . Something is wrong with this picture . They missed out personality, character!! Something the girl or guy finds out when its too late. But what can they do now. Its all done with and the parent of the either side would try to convince the wedded to hang in there . Time will bring love they say . Yes . It would have .Back when life used to be black and white . Back when your parents got married . In the 21st century , if a guy cant find a soul mate, if he opts to find a bride through arranged marriage .Well..it makes me wonder. What is wrong with him ? Is he such a bad person ? Is he a Momma's boy ? Has lost his faith in love ? Is he gay ?? . Don't know. But i know this , spending your life with the wrong person can get you to Heaven..why ? ..Cos you have already been through Hell .. Good Luck People .Hope you find the one you are meant to be with . It would be perfect if your parents support your decision . GOD BLESS . :)

and heres something to think about ..Is it the insecurities that drive parents into being such controlling angels ?..must ponder on it ..;)